Durga Puja and Our Teenagers
September 28, 2011 on 11:25 pm | In Generic | 1 Comment
When we celebrate Durga Puja in this adopted homeland of ours, one thought keeps on playing in our minds - how much does our children enjoy this festival? Do they feel the same as we did when we were kids in our homeland? Many of us had the idea that our children really don’t care much about this favorite festival of ours. Often we have seen bored kids playing hand held video games in the hallways of our festival venue while their parents enjoyed inside. We sometimes debated, whether we are forcing our kids to come to the festival just because we want to, or it is our duty as a parent to introduce them to our culture and traditions? Is it working? Can they feel the spirit of the best festival of our community?
To get a more definitive answer, I asked my fourteen year old son Omkar and his friends a simple question. What does Durga Puja mean to them? And here are their responses. Continue reading Durga Puja and Our Teenagers…
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September 23, 2011 on 8:11 pm | In Generic | No CommentsIt is said that you can take a Bengali out of Bengal, but you cannot take Bengal 
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